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Radiating Confidence And Becoming Magnetic
It is something that’s happening to me and I love it.
I never knew I loved being around people. I actually thought I hated it. Everybody thought I was introverted including myself.
I still am. I hardly ever go out to talk to other people.
But right now, people are going out of their way to talk to me. And I like it.
But I don’t know why.
Things haven’t changed much at all. I’m not the one starting more conversations with other people nor was I making a large effort at making myself open.
I know that I have gone through huge changes internally, however, so let me start analyzing those areas.
I’ve certainly become more confident and courageous.
I am willing to share vulnerabilities and completely fail, confident that I am able to stand back up and learn something new.
So admittedly, I have been talking a little more. For example, in work.
But this was happening in my badminton club. I was still the kid that sat away from everyone else solely talking to his brother.
Yet, every session, there seem to be more and more people approaching me and more attention focused onto me.